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When you become “the difficult one” for having boundaries in family relationships

When you become “the difficult one” for having boundaries in family relationships

by Heather Todd | 11, Apr 2026 | Relationships

Why setting limits can change how others see you, and why that doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong There’s a moment many people experience when they begin setting boundaries. At first, it can feel empowering. You pause before automatically saying yes. You think...
How dysfunction becomes “normal” – Understanding the hidden impact of growing up in a toxic family

How dysfunction becomes “normal” – Understanding the hidden impact of growing up in a toxic family

by Heather Todd | 26, Dec 2025 | Relationships

Did you grow up in a home where criticism, yelling, or silent treatment were everyday occurrences? You may not have realised it at the time, but that environment was shaping your idea of what “normal” family life looks like. As children, we don’t have the ability to...
Why everything can feel like a battle in your relationship or marriage

Why everything can feel like a battle in your relationship or marriage

by Heather Todd | 2, Oct 2025 | Relationships

Sometimes relationship challenges don’t show up in the obvious ways that we may expect. They can creep in through the smaller, everyday moments, such as, the choice of where to sit in a restaurant, who books the airline seats, or how one partner responds when the...
The subtle ways narcissistic partners undermine your confidence

The subtle ways narcissistic partners undermine your confidence

by Heather Todd | 26, Jun 2025 | Relationships

Being in a relationship with a narcissistic partner doesn’t always involve overt abuse. The most damaging behaviour can be subtle, persistent, and difficult to identify. If you’ve ever found yourself second-guessing your memory, feeling “not good...
10 Clear signs your partner is emotionally unavailable and how it can affect your relationship

10 Clear signs your partner is emotionally unavailable and how it can affect your relationship

by Heather Todd | 26, Sep 2024 | Relationships

Emotional availability is at the heart of any healthy relationship. When both partners are emotionally open, the relationship thrives, creating an atmosphere of trust, empathy, and intimacy. However, when one partner is emotionally unavailable it can strain the...
Early dating red flags – 9 warning signs you should consider

Early dating red flags – 9 warning signs you should consider

by Heather Todd | 14, Mar 2024 | Relationships

Embarking on a new romantic journey can be both exciting and joyful. You’re getting to know someone new as well as sharing new experiences. However, the early stages of dating are also crucial for spotting potential red flags that could indicate unhealthy...
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