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How dysfunction becomes “normal” – Understanding the hidden impact of growing up in a toxic family

How dysfunction becomes “normal” – Understanding the hidden impact of growing up in a toxic family

by Heather Todd | 26, Dec 2025 | Relationships

Did you grow up in a home where criticism, yelling, or silent treatment were everyday occurrences? You may not have realised it at the time, but that environment was shaping your idea of what “normal” family life looks like. As children, we don’t have the ability to...

Getting through overwhelming stress one step at a time

by Heather Todd | 22, Dec 2025 | Testimonials

Having tapping sessions with Heather got me through the overwhelming stress of a much-needed marriage separation. Her kindness, skill and empathy in our EFT sessions empowered me to keep moving forward, one step at a time. I’m so grateful to have had the...

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